Friday, August 7, 2009

But After A Rough Start, A Good Day

After the morning situation yesterday, I went to "work" (a coffee shop not too far away) for awhile. When I got back, she was chipper as a chicken and buzzing about, doing whatever it is Grandma does. She asked twice when we were going to R1's. She got ready an hour and a half early (even took a second shower!), and put on her nice shoes. (Sometimes, she's so sweet and childlike, it brings tears to my eyes.) She looked really pretty. She asked again when M was coming. (R1: thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. And the dinner was excellent.)

I'm seeing a slight correlation. When she's rested and happy, or has something to look forward to, she's sharper. "We're going to R1's for dinner! I sure do like her new husband. I went to their house once recently and I really like their place!" (!!!)

She did think M is my father, and seemed surprised that my mom is in Oklahoma City. She showed us her watch three times, I think. Some of the dinner table talk was a little off, but several things she said were surprisingly spot-on.

During dinner, I asked if she remembered Cocoa, the Siamese cat. She said she didn't. I said, "the one that used to play with Ring, the dog." Then she remembered. So, sometimes, context helps. I could have described Cocoa all night with no luck, but mentioning Ring triggered something.

So, here are my observations:
  • If she's excited about something and well-rested, more pieces will be in place.
  • If she's happy and well-rested, more pieces are in place, but not nearly as many as when she's excited.
  • If she can't remember one thing specifically, describe the things relating to it. Context seems to help with memory.

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  2. Siamese cat that would get lost in the hallway and call for us to come get him. Hilarious cat.

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  3. I remember him! Or else I remember pictures of him. I can't remember what I remember.

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